Hmmm? Where to start? I'm honestly not sure as I have a few things that I want to start this year. But are they resolutions or are they new ways of life? I think you can look at them both ways. I've been thinking of late that we have lost our sense of "self", of what we are able to accomplish with our own two hands, of what we are able to do when we set our minds to something. Before commercialism took over the world, a great thing for the entrepreneur side of me hoping to get out, I think there was a deeper sense of gratitude, thoughtfulness and giving in our daily lives. Things that were given to our families, friends and loved ones were made by us, after some thought and contemplation and scan of what we had available. I think that is lost. This is not saying that there aren't amazing things out there for purchase, but more along the lines that we don't really think all that much about what it is we are buying. Things have turned the way of instant gratification, readily available on a trip to Pier One about 15 minutes before you have to be somewhere for a gift exchange. Everyone needs that availability once in a while, but what happened to knowing what your best friend loves and trying to surprise her with something that took more than 30 seconds to select?
I could be going at this all wrong in my way of explaining my feelings. I'm not against the purchase, far from it (especially as I just ordered a customized charm necklace for my mom for her birthday from Luxe Designs). I'm more against the overwhelming in-your-face consumerism that is thrown at us from every single angle, making things far too easy. I think I get jaded when I see things for Valentine's Day gifts up in the stores two days after Christmas...seriously?
That being said, my New Year's Resolution is to not purchase any gifts for anyone for the year - aside from the necklace for my mom as that has been in the works for months! Anything that I give this year must be made by me in one sense or the other. I know of a few things that I will end up straying from this resolution for as I have no idea how to make baby clothes! Maybe I just won't give baby clothes, maybe a blanket or a stuffed softie instead. That I can do, even with my minimal sewing skills.
Other resolutions:
* Pause before I speak.
* Relax, lower the intensity level. (HARD)
* Follow-through.
Best of luck to me and to you in your adventures in 2010!!